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"Be Ye Kind One to Another": Part 6

2/13/2023

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Refreshing

In this Series we're discussing a path forward; how can we become "one"?  Will we ever learn to love one another?  Is Zion just a tall-tale we tell our primary classes, like Paul Bunyan and his blue ox, Babe?

If you'd like to catch up:

   Part 1:  A Cloak of Charity
   Part 2:  Big Tent Mormonism
   Part 3:  Smell the Love
   Part 4:  Instruments of the Spirit
   Part 5:  Face Cards of Contention

In case you were wondering, we're building up towards something the apostle Paul taught the Romans, which I think will blow our minds.

A Description and a Definition

We began with a description of Zion ― "And the Lord called his people ZION, because they were of one heart and one mind, and dwelt in righteousness; and there was no poor among them" (Moses 7:18).

But the Lord also gave us a definition of Zion ― "Verily, thus saith the Lord, let Zion rejoice, for this is Zion ― the pure in heart; therefore, let Zion rejoice" (D&C 97:21).

What connects the two?  What do we find in common between the description and the definition of Zion?

   Hearts.

Does this mean the "pure in heart" are the only people who have any hope of becoming "one heart"? 

Are the only ones who sit on a wooden log around the campfire singing Kumbaya those whose hearts are pure?
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​​A Devil's Bargain

What does it mean to be "pure in heart?"  Well, let's conduct a test:

   1.  Whose heart is more impure:
      (a) a prideful man
      (b) an immoral man

   2.  True or False:  Harlots enter heaven before the Pharisees (Matt. 21:31).

   3.  Hardened hearts are best achieved by:
      (a) thinking we have the answers
      (b) seeking for greater light and truth

A thing is pure, by definition, when it is "free from anything of a different, inferior, or contaminating kind."  Water is pure when it is free from bugs and germs; our hearts are pure when they are stripped of things like "jealousies and fears" (D&C 67:10).  

Purity, then, is not synonymous with virtue; purity of heart requires far more than chastity.

Fire Lizard Fur

Pretend we lived during the Middle Ages, when everything was lit by candlelight and fireplaces and oil lamps (talk about a fire insurance salesman's dream!).

And pretend we discover a magical mineral that is fire-proof.  We show a couple of monks a bit of cloth we found in Jerusalem made of the stuff, and when they see it doesn't burn in the fire, and becomes white in the flames, they believe it is the very cloth the Savior used to wash the feet of his disciples at the Last Supper.

We're rich!  We start a booming business weaving tablecloths and napkins from the magical fibers; we even create suits of armor from it.  Now all the noblest knights wear our special, flame-retardant garments.

Now, this substance we've found is called asbestos (and everything I've said is historical).

Well, there's a downside to our fabulous cloth, a devil's bargain.  Because asbestos sheds microscopic fibers that are invisible to the naked eye.  When asbestos is inhaled, it causes mesothelioma (a deadly form of cancer).

But what if we thought the benefits of using asbestos outweighed the risks?  Say we're Charlemagne and one of our advisors reports that some of our knights are dying, but only the ones who wear asbestos clothing.

Would we tell them to throw away such a useful thing?

Spiritual Asbestos

Isaiah warned us; really he did.  He told us all about the health-risks of spiritual asbestos: the very thing that is fatal to the "pure in heart."  See if you can spot it:

   Jehovah of Hosts has a day in store
   for all the proud and arrogant
   and for all who are exalted,
   that they may be brought low.

   It shall come against all the lofty
   cedars of Lebanon
   that lift themselves up high,
   and against all the oaks of Bashan. . . .

   The haughtiness of men
   shall be abased,
   and man’s pride brought low;
   Jehovah alone shall be exalted
​   in that day.

   He will utterly supplant the false gods.


(Isaiah 2:12-13, 17-18, Gileadi Translation)   

   See it? 

How can we be "pure in heart" when our hierarchies enshrine pride and status; when we construct temples and seminaries from cedar and oak?  When we clothe our leaders in the asbestos robes of high offices and rank and inequality, which is causing cancer among the community of Christ?
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"By Pride Cometh Contention"

For our purposes, let's think of "pride" as believing our "way" is the right way (which others should follow).  Isn't this the root of pride?  Preferring the superiority of our judgment, and skill, and experience?

   By pride cometh contention.

(Proverbs 13:10)

Put a couple prideful people together and sparks will fly.  The Mike Tyson of pride was Lucifer, who thought we should all see the genius of his plan.  I mean, none would be lost?  Sounds too good to be true!

Aren't we all like little-Lucifers when we peddle our own wisdom, our own opinion, our own strength, on others?

Let me put the shoe on my other foot to better explain what I mean, by taking an example of something I personally do not like, and asking myself, "Do I fall into the trap of trying to impose my standards on others?  Am I any different than the the next guy?"

   Every one that is proud in heart
   is an abomination to the Lord.


(Proverbs 16:5)

Haunted Houses.  There, now you know.  I hate haunted houses.  I think they're full of yucky evil; they give me bad vibes, filled with darkness (and it never fails to amaze me how popular they are).

   Pride goeth before destruction.

(Proverbs 16:18)

But, since I am trying to be open-minded, let's pretend that I'm wired differently than you.  Unlike me, you can enjoy a haunted house as a bit of harmless fun; you aren't bothered by the chainsaw-wielding wackos in blood-splattered lab coats.  Oooookay. 

   Woe to the crown of pride,
   to the drunkards of Ephraim.


(Isaiah 28:1)

I see you; if your spirit is unaffected by haunted houses, who am I to try to convince you it's wrong?  Just because I've learned it's wrong for me, does that necessarily mean it's wrong for you?

For a minute, I am going to try to be spiritually mature.  Can I let you go to haunted houses without judging you for it?  Am I man enough to sip my hot cocoa on the Ferris Wheel and wait for you while you go through that twisted maze of misery, and still embrace you afterwards and love you every bit as I love myself, though our "values" are different?

Yes, yes I think I can do that.  I will try. 

   O God, lift up thine hand:
   forget not the humble.


(Psalm 10:12)

Let's switch the shoe.  Maybe you can watch the half-time show of the Superbowl without it offending your spirit.  Good for you!  I will honor your walk with God even if it isn't identical to mine.  But let's say I don't want to watch Rihanna's performance last night ― will you want to convince me there's nothing wrong with Rihanna and her music and gyrating dancers? 

So we see it cuts both ways; we all need to throw a "cloak of charity" over each other's differences.  This means allowing them to do things we don't approve of, but also to NOT do things we DO approve of (see the difference?).

At the end of the day, aren't we supposed to afford everyone the privilege of following their conscience?  Or do we expect them to follow ours?

   Better to be of an humble spirit
   with the lowly, than to divide the spoil
   with the proud.


(Proverbs 16:19)

What I am trying to say is very simple: pride is the opposite of love; in fact, pride prevents us from loving each other purely.

Why?  Because pride makes us feel like what is "right" for me is "right" for you, and what is NOT right for me is NOT right for you.  Pride, at best, is judgmental; at its worst, it is controlling and abusive.

When we think about it, a prideful mindset treats others as extensions of our ego; as objects that either confirm ("oh, they agree with me; I like them") or threaten ("apostates!") our worldview.  Isn't it funny how insecure pride is?  Which is why pride craves, above all else, the validation of others' obedience.

But when we use others to stroke our pride ― excuse me: "gratify our pride" (D&C 121:37) ― the heavens withdraw from us. (And not just "us" individually, but also us-as-a-Church.)

Why?  Because we are no longer treating others like children of God; we're treating them like animals who have to be potty trained (i.e., get with the program; fall-in-line with "the right way"; yield to the correctness of my authority). 

​Thus we see the most common way for love to perish is to place it in an environment of prideful "authority."  What better way for love to wax cold than placing it in the chilly corner outside of the sunlight of Christ's cross-won liberty?

   The humble shall see this,
   and be glad: and your heart
   shall live that seek God.


(Psalm 69:32)
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Order of Magnitude Greater

There's a very real danger of inviting others to "come unto Christ" and then bossing them around, telling them the "right way" to do it, unloading our spiritual baggage onto their backs and making it their burden.

Isn't this what Christ meant when He accused the Pharisees:

   Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees,
   hypocrites! for ye compass sea
   and land to make one proselyte,
   and when he is made, ye make him
   twofold more the child of hell
   than yourselves.
   Woe unto you, ye blind guides.


(Matt. 23:15-16)

This is like treating Jesus as a museum exhibit, placing Him behind red ropes and glass, charging admission and telling guests not to get too close, as if He were the Mona Lisa (think: prayer-pronouns).

After all, He's the main draw, the main attraction: the people come for Him and that's how we keep the lights on; but we've got security cameras and darned-if-we-don't make sure you follow the rules.  No food or drink!  No flash photography!  No kissing the glass!

Boy, we think we're doing a great job for God, shuffling the crowds through the line to get their signs, tokens, and covenants, moving people towards the Lord . . . just don't hold up the line!  "Keep the line moving, folks!"  And be sure to shoo-away those pesky teenagers who don't know how to behave like civilized people in a museum, for heaven's sake, didn't their parents teach them manners?  Good grief.

Whenever we start acting like curators who are in-charge of "the Christ Exhibit" (i.e., His Church), we demonstrate a level of pride on an order of magnitude that makes the angels weep (see D&C 76:26).

I'm talking about massive, collective, institutional pride ― the generational, marble-hewn pride of an organization priding itself on being "the only true and living Church."

Don't believe it?  Recently the Relief Society in my ward (as my wife tells me) has begun cracking down on members who are not following the Handbook-prescribed rules for speech and dress in the Church, as if Christianity has become Gordon Ramsey's Hell's Kitchen and we're all just sous chefs, flustered and running about in fear we've overcooked the scallops, as Gordon shouts we're falling behind!

As the Lord described it:

   This people draweth nigh unto me
   with their mouth, and honoureth me
   with their lips; but their heart
 
 [ah, here we find "heart" again]
   is far from me.

   But in vain they do worship me,   
   teaching for doctrines the 
   commandments of men.


(Matt. 15:8-9)

I keep coming back to the need for us to collectively repent, as a people (as a Church!), and to seek the Lord humbly, like little children. 

Repent of what?  How about behaving like we rule the spiritual sandbox with our priesthood authority, as if Daddy gave us the keys to His car and everyone else has to ride in the backseat.

Pure love requires equality; Zion requires equality (see D&C 78:5-7).

What would happen if we all rose up like Rosa Parks and said peacefully to the drivers, "We are all equal on this bus; let's stop treating others like they are less-than."

Or we can stick with the status-quo, delivering casseroles as puffed up as our hearts, with Zion remaining a nice fairytale we tell our children as we put them to bed.
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Ben
2/13/2023 11:48:54 pm

"Whenever we start acting like curators who are in-charge of "the Christ Exhibit" (i.e., His Church), we demonstrate a level of pride on an order of magnitude that makes the angels weep (see D&C 76:26)."

I'm pretty sure this statement isn't pointed at me but I still took it to heart. While I'm constantly awakening to my own unbelief that doesn't mean I get to scripture chase you into believing my newfound perspective. On one hand, the truths are so cool you can't wait to share them with anyone who will listen, regardless their interest. "If they could just understand what the actual doctrine is, surely they will be just as excited as I am!" As if I've grasped it all enough to become a purveyor.

"Better to be of an humble spirit with the lowly, than to divide the spoil with the proud. (Proverbs 16:19)"

And there's the rub. Would He rather I keep my thoughts to myself until a moment when He inspires me to speak with one who is prepared to hear? Most of Adinadi's words fell on deaf ears, except for the one. Perhaps Hyrum's experience is the nearest example, being told to be still and master the doctrine before rushing out to convert the world unprepared. The Lord has better and more faithful voices who can and do teach in a more loving manner, subduing exhuberance in order to communicate more effectively. Maybe holding my tongue and not casting seeds on just any soil is the more loving approach - not that my judgement of preparedness is important, but my willingness to let Him guide helps me slough off the natural man, and also further avoid moments of gratifying pride.

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Tim Merrill
2/15/2023 12:08:59 pm

Ben, the fact you're asking these questions shows you're open; knock and it shall be opened. For the past couple years I've vascillated back and forth regarding how "bold" I should be. Things sort of came to a head last year for me, when someone told me that my family and neighbors and ward members hadn't given me their "consent" to drop 'truth-bombs' on them. At first I thought, "What 'consent" do we need, other than the Spirit?" But upon further introspection, I saw how I had been, at times, "over bearing." The Spirit, on the other hand, is NOT over-bearing. So I might have taken some artistic liberties, believing I was doing God a favor by being plain-spoken, when in reality I was just being unfiltered and borish.

I've reflected a lot about what "consent" means in a spiritual context, pondering ways in which the Spirit responds to our asking, or welcoming, him into our hearts. It has changed the way I share my beliefs. On this blog, everyone who comes here and reads what I say does so voluntarily; so I can say a lot of things here that I wouldn't at Church.

Clark Burt has written about teaching the Savior's way. Something I've taken away from it is that Christ spoke in Parables because his listeners were "hard of hearing." It was a way the Savior respected others' levels of understanding.

Keep up the good work, and God bless your desire to share His word. Love it, and you! Tim

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Tim Merrill
2/15/2023 12:16:47 pm

Here's the link to Clark's blog on Parables:

https://fingerofgod.blogspot.com/2021/08/teaching-in-saviors-way-christs-use-of.html

Clark Burt
2/16/2023 05:57:16 am

I have a system I use when I read a new post on your blog. I read it once and think about it--the theme. Then I read it again a day or two later and focus on the analogies and just enjoy the words of God you use in support of or in contravention of the theme, like in this series, love and pride and how pride and love cannot coexist. Then I read it again and marvel at how Christ and His servants have communicated His Father's words to us which you use so effectively. Finally I try to think of a comment to write as I read it a fourth time. This is a challenge because because there is so much to comment on in each post, and in this case all I can say is Amen and Amen. How clever is Satan? He is the master of illusion. He can make us actually 'see' ourselves on the path that leads to to Tree of Life, while we are actually in the large and special building. And you have again captured that lie in this series. We mistakenly believe that we can define love, and experience only flawed human love. Sure we believe we are striving to love like Christ, but don't experience His love in us. Others want His love and pray for it with all their hearts (there it is again), and desire it above all else because it is most desirable. But because we are in the process of receiving His grace but because we are impure, we can only receive what we are willing to receive.

As you concluded this post "Or we can stick with the status-quo, delivering casseroles as puffed up as our hearts, with Zion remaining a nice fairytale we tell our children as we put them to bed" you capture the essence of receiving that which we desire. When I read your posts I think of my own pride and lack of love and yet rejoice in His love and Grace. He His my Redeemer (what a great name for Him!), and I rejoice in Him. That is always where your posts take me, and this series makes me desire more of His love because I have been a part of all that you using His words that have now become yours. Thank you.


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